Life comes at you fast, and this week it hit me square in the jaw when it presented me with photos of Jeremy Allen White kissing his Bear co-star Molly Gordon. White and Gordon were spotted in LA on Wednesday saying goodbye with what TMZ described as a “big chef kiss” and an intimate hug, before White held Gordon’s car door open for her and they parted ways. Throughout the entire interaction, White didn’t rock a single but two packs of American Spirits in his hand – perhaps an indicator of his mental state?

Gordon continues to play White’s love interest The Bearbut according to TMZ, there were no cameras around, so it appears this moment was, shall we say, unscripted. Until now, White was believed to be dating Rosalía, after they were spotted on several romantic flower shop trips and cigarette breaks. It looks like those two are no more: White didn’t show up to Rosalía’s birthday party in Paris on Wednesday night (I don’t think even her platter of loose cigarettes could seduce him). Instead, he was “rehearsing” with Gordon and her chore coat (wink, wink). What will Ayo think of all this?

Anyway, if you’re heading to LA anytime soon, be careful: this man and his Calvins are really making their way through the city.